—Your Results—
Primal Question #3
"Am I Loved?"
Your results suggest that your Primal Question may be “Am I Loved?” Below are additional details about your results.
CORE NEED:
To feel known, seen and emotionally attached
CORE FEAR:
Being dismissed, unheard and unseen
KRYPTONITE:
Indifference towards you
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PQ 3: Am I Loved?
Coaching Tips
You carry a fear that love is conditional or out of reach. But when you root yourself in true love and acceptance, you become a powerful connector who helps others feel deeply seen and valued.
1. Speak your needs in relationships.
Don’t wait for people to read your mind.
Why? Expressing needs builds real intimacy and shows you’re worth loving.
2. Notice where you perform for approval.
Track the moments you hide or overcompensate.
Why? Awareness breaks the cycle of earning love.
3. Practice receiving love without deflection.
Take the compliment. Accept the help.
Why? Receiving love rewires your belief that you’re worthy of it.
THE SEVEN PRIMAL QUESTIONS, EXPLAINED
An introduction to each Primal Question:
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The Q1s are the world’s guardians — they help people feel safe and protected, are naturally able to analyze and predict, and tend to be emotionally connected and sensitive.
At their core, they crave physical and emotional safety — and negative surprises are a “no, thanks.”
When Q1s are at their best, they’re relaxed, at peace, and can heal and protect those around them. However, when they’re in their scramble, they tend to try to control the future, live on high alert, and exist in a lot of stress and anxiety.
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The Q2s are great providers and partners — and they build stable environments, prioritize their relationships and finances, and tend to be trustworthy, grounded, and methodical.
At their core, they crave security — and not having the right amount of money or relational resources to protect themselves is a big fear.
When Q2s are at their best, they’re generous, connected, and secure. However, when they’re in their scramble, they tend to fret over money, resources, and relational capital.
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The Q3s are gifted at loving and caring for others — and they create safe, loving environments for others to feel seen, heard, and treasured.
At their core, they crave being loved — and the thought of being dismissed, unheard, or unseen is a deep fear.
When Q3s are at their best, they’re nurturing, kind, and empathetic. However, when they’re in their scramble, they tend to become people-pleasers, over-give, and engage in codependent behaviors.
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The Q4s are welcoming, accepting, and inclusive — and they’re excellent at connecting people and including them.
At their core, they crave being wanted — and the thought of being excluded, replaced, or shunned is a deep fear.
When Q4s are at their best, they’re strong in social settings, good with people, and make others feel special. However, when they’re in their scramble, they tend to lose themselves in the need to feel wanted themselves.
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The Q5s are confident, focused, and help everyone solve problems — and win.
At their core, they want to be and be seen as successful — and being seen as incompetent or underachieving is their worst possible outcome.
When Q5s are at their best, they lead themselves and others to positive outcomes — and their can-do attitudes give them the ability to produce great work. However, when they’re in their scramble, they tend to lose sight of the bigger picture, engage in workaholic behaviors, and work towards outcomes they may not really want.
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The Q6s are valuable, advocating, and full of special abilities — plus, they’re great at seeing possibilities and spotting untapped resources.
At their core, they want to be seen as good — and ever being negatively thought of or criticized is a huge deal to them.
When Q6s are at their best, they add value to others, embrace their own imperfections, and maximize the lives around them. However, when they’re in their scramble, they tend to see themselves as a victim or shut down.
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The Q7s are imaginative, forward-thinking, and impactful — and they consistently make the world around them a better place.
At their core, they want to live a life full of meaning — and living a purposeless life is the worst thing that could happen to them.
When Q7s are at their best, they embrace their boundless visions, rally people towards a difference, and help others unlock their purpose. However, when they’re in their scramble, they tend to get caught up in finding the “right” path, which can cause them to miss the good.
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The Seven Primal Questions
TAKE CONTROL OF THE HIDDEN FORCES THAT DRIVE YOU
The Seven Primal Questions is a simple way of seeing your hidden programming, emotional needs, and supernatural gifts in a transparent way. Inside, you’ll learn your unique Primal Question and allow it to equip you to maximize it for your growth — plus, you’ll stop being controlled by old wounds and patterns that sabotage your story.
